Archive for the ‘BDSM’ Category

Sweet Surrender

Posted: July 2, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

The sweetest surrender is when it comes naturally, when it feels right, when you have not one single doubt or reservation within you and you simply let go. Handing all that you are over to your Dominant, knowing with every fiber of your being that you are completely safe and protected under His/Her control. For those of us who have this, never take it for granted. For those of you working towards finding this, never ever settle for anything less no matter how long it takes you find the right “one” who brings out all these magnificent feelings in you. The wait and possible heartache(s) you endure along your journey will make it all so worth it in the end. ~Harlow

7/1/2015

7/1/2015

His Power

Posted: June 30, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

I often wonder if He is aware of the power He has over me? How intensely I crave Him to unleash His hunger for me in the most primal way, taking me, owning me, claiming me…. and then I realize…. He knows me better than I know myself. ~Harlow

6/29/2015

6/29/2015

Rope Work

Posted: June 25, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

girl-hands-tied-bondage-glamour-dark-make-up-his-37365427For me there is something truly sensual when I think of rope work. The time, patience and masterful intricacy of it is beautiful artwork come to life. Although I have never experienced it myself but would love to at some point, I think it must be very therapeutic to be the canvas of such exquisite work, very well could also have the same affect on the artist too. ~Harlow

Just let go…

Posted: June 23, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

There’s times in our lives that we need to simply embrace the moment and forget all reason. Let yourself go completely and never regret. ~Harlow

6/22/2015

6/22/2015

BDSM Limits Checklist

Posted: June 21, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

BDSM CKLIST

Sweet Memories

Posted: June 20, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

Sweet memories are what You left me with, the taste of You, the feel of Your hands as You worked them over me. The heat that drove me insane with desire still burns under the surface, smoldering over every inch of my being. You’re now gone from me but left Yourself embedded into the very core of me and will continue to burn for You until You return to me once again. ~Harlow

*Dedicated to my Daddy. I love you Daddy… Til next time <3 Your kitten *

6/19/2015

6/19/2015

Harlow’s Must Have Pick of the Month!

Posted: June 4, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

This is my latest addition from Fabulous O and I’ve had it for about a month now. It has become one of my favorite toys and trust me when I say I am VERY picky about my toys! I have to say for the price, it is a steal! I have paid 3x as much for other vibe’s before and was left disappointed in the quality…. this one however all I can say is just WOW!! Quality is awesome, feels fantastic and lifelike and not only does it have 10 speeds but my favorite feature is that it bends and hits all the right spots!! You can thank me later ;)
~Harlow

June 2015

June 2015

Difference between a sub and a bottom.

Posted: June 4, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

The question of what is the difference between a submissive vs a bottom
comes up quite a bit so here is the answer to help people have a clear understanding of each as they are not the same at all.

submissive: submits entirely and gives up control of themselves, or of certain aspects of their lives on an ongoing everyday basis.

bottom: submits only occasionally and primarily only in sexual aspects of their life.

To further expand on this, a submissive typically surrenders to only one, whereas a bottom can have either one or multiple partners they submit to. ~Harlow

6/3/2015

6/3/2015

Stepping out of your comfort zone.

Posted: May 30, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

Stepping out of your comfort zone….

What makes you cringe just thinking about having to do it? What is expected of you from your Dominant that takes you out of your comfort zone? I know there may be a whole list of thing’s that go with this answer but just name one.

For me, it’s having to undress in front of Him. Nothing is as unnerving to me as having to do that and brings up all my personal insecurities. Yes, His view on the matter is entirely different to mine and He does nothing but praise me and make me try to see with His eye’s but mentally I can’t let go and relax. Being that vulnerable is extremely hard for me and this specifically truly pushes me out of my comfort zone. I don’t mind being nude at all, but when I am nude knowing that He is taking in every inch of me visually at His leisure, is something entirely different.

However hard it is for me, I still do it none the less because it pleases Him and because I know He does so to help me overcome something that is hard for me. This, although it may seem minimal to some, is an example of what handing over my control and will to my Dominant is. Giving Him the control and trust to push my limits and boundaries but knowing He will keep me safe, protected and has my best intentions in mind.
~Harlow

5/30/2015

5/30/2015

Disappointing You.

Posted: May 29, 2015 by harlow2 in D/s

Disappointing You is the the last thing I would ever do intentionally. It is the worst feeling to know I have let You down. I can come up with only one reason for my failure and that is because I am human. It does not mean I do not put forth all of me to please You, it simply means I am imperfect.

Disappointing You affects me deeper than anything You can imagine and feeling this disappointment in myself, I strive to not make the same mistake again. ~Harlow

5/28/2015

5/28/2015